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![Comment (or DM us) RIDE for a step-by-step instructions and next-level techniques for one of our favorite positions for female pleasure 🤠]()
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✨ Step-by-step audio + written guides for HJs, BJs, and 🐱 play
✨ Tasteful animated GIFs of our hottest techniques
✨ Exactly what to do before, during, and after O
✨ Secret hacks to get them begging for more
✨ Positions to keep things spicy — every time
💦 Comment BLISS below (or DM us!) to grab yours TONIGHT!]()
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![If you’re that couple that wants more, follow along for tips to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship.
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Why do we censor words? 🤬
Trust us, we wish we didn’t have to. We’re here to take away the shame and taboo!
But unfortunately Meta considers our educational content to be the same as rhymes-with-corn, and they’ve repeatedly made us delete content, even when we cens0r it.
They’ve made me remove my title of “socks” therapist, and even recently disabled our account temporarily. They’ve threatened that they can fully close down our account at any time.
If you want to support our mission, we’d love to have you join our email list (where we *don’t* have to cens0r ourselves, and where we can keep sharing content even if IG shuts us down).
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![If you’re that couple that wants more, follow along for tips to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship.
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Why do we censor words? 🤬
Trust us, we wish we didn’t have to. We’re here to take away the shame and taboo!
But unfortunately Meta considers our educational content to be the same as rhymes-with-corn, and they’ve repeatedly made us delete content, even when we cens0r it.
They’ve made me remove my title of “socks” therapist, and even recently disabled our account temporarily. They’ve threatened that they can fully close down our account at any time.
If you want to support our mission, we’d love to have you join our email list (where we *don’t* have to cens0r ourselves, and where we can keep sharing content even if IG shuts us down).
👉To be added, DM us the word INSIDER 📧]()
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![✨ Want to feel closer to your partner tonight? ✨
💌 Send them this post and they have to answer one of the questions. 👀💬
Then you do the same! It’s such a simple way to reconnect and open up a deeper conversation.]()
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![Aging? Inevitable. A fading love life? Optional!
This week on the podcast, we’re diving into one of our most requested topics ever: secs + aging.
We’re answering your biggest questions about how intimacy shifts over the years — from l!b!do changes, to navigating menopause, to keeping things hot no matter your age.
💛 In this episode, we cover:
How old is too old to have secs (spoiler: never)
What to do if your l!b!do + your partner’s don’t match
Navigating perimenopause without your partner taking it personally
Feeling sexy in a body that’s changed since your 20sManaging dryness, body changes, and shifting anatomy
Creative ways to keep intimacy exciting when it feels like you’ve “done it all”
Plus, you’ll hear from listeners in their 40s, 50s, 60s (and beyond!) who swear that secs actually gets better with age.
Freer. Hotter. More confident.
Because yes, aging is inevitable. But a boring secs life? Nope.
🎧 Comment HEADPHONES below (or DM us!) and we’ll send you the link to E225: The Truth About Secs and Aging: Menopause, E.D., and L!b!do]()
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![The more you know 🌈
👋 New to our content? Follow along for the secs education you wish you had with realistic tips that prioritize female pleasure.]()
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2025-09-11 22:01:35
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![Who can relate?
If your partner feels embarrassed talking about secs because of their upbringing (hello, purity culture), because it feels sensitive, or just because they’re shy… you’re not alone.
A lot of people grew up with shame or discomfort around the topic, so it makes sense that talking about it can feel vulnerable. The key is patience, compassion, and curiosity. 💛
✨ Start by acknowledging their feelings: “I know talking about secs feels embarrassing, and I get that—it’s not something most of us were taught how to do.”
✨ Talk about the benefits:
“I think talking about this together could help me feel closer to you.”
✨ Start small and keep it low-pressure: Share a positive memory about a time you felt close.
The goal isn’t to have the “perfect” convo. It’s to create safety so deeper conversations can grow. 🌱
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Why do we censor words like “secs”? 🤬
Trust us, we wish we didn’t have to. We’re here to take away the shame and taboo!
But unfortunately Meta considers our educational content to be the same as rhymes-with-corn, and they’ve repeatedly made us delete content, even when we cens0r it.
They’ve made me remove my title of “secs” therapist, and even recently disabled our account temporarily. They’ve threatened that they can fully close down our account at any time.
If you want to support our mission, we’d love to have you join our email list (where we don’t have to cens0r ourselves, and where we can keep sharing content even if IG shuts us down).
👉To be added, DM us the word INSIDER 📧]()
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![The Conversations You NEED to Have About Secs (But Probably Haven’t Yet)
Most couples think they’re communicating about secs, but are they really? 🤔 Avoiding these convos can create misunderstandings, resentment, and even a lack of desire over time.
The good news? Talking about secs doesn’t have to be awkward or cringey—it can actually bring you closer and make intimacy even better. Here are three essential conversations every couple needs to have:
💬 1. Acknowledgment
So many couples avoid talking about secs altogether, thinking it should “just happen naturally.” But avoiding the conversation can actually create distance.
Start simple:
✅ Share a compliment about your partner or a favorite secsual memory.
✅ Send a text or email if face-to-face feels intimidating.
✅ If past conversations have been tense, try a “Fresh Start Conversation” to clear the slate.
🔥 2. Desire
Your secs life isn’t “one-size-fits-all.” What feels good? What turns you on? What do you wish your partner knew? A few ways to explore this:
✅ Learn your “User Manual” (what gets you in the mood and what doesn’t).
✅ Talk about your “secs drive type” (Spontaneous vs. Responsive) so neither of you feels rejected.
✅ Make a fun “Secs Menu” together—think options for quickies, deep connection nights, and playful exploration.
❤️ 3. Emotional & Physical Intimacy: The Secret to a Stronger Connection
Your emotional connection fuels your physical connection. Want to feel closer? Try this:
✅ Identify what makes you feel emotionally connected (date nights, deep convos, physical touch?).
✅ Talk about how you like to initiate secs—subtle hints, direct requests, playful teasing?
✅ Set clear boundaries & practice giving feedback in a way that strengthens, not hurts, your connection.
💡 Want a fun way to get started? Comment PEACOCK (or DM us!) to take our Secs Personality Type Quiz! Discover which of the 11 types you resonate with most—so you can unlock what truly brings you pleasure and get the conversation going. 🎉]()
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![👋 New to our content? Follow along for tips to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship.
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Why do we censor words? 🤬
Trust us, we wish we didn’t have to. We’re here to take away the shame and taboo!
But unfortunately Meta considers our educational content to be the same as rhymes-with-corn, and they’ve repeatedly made us delete content, even when we cens0r it. They’ve made me remove my title of “socks” therapist, and even recently disabled our account temporarily. They’ve threatened that they can fully close down our account at any time.
If you want to support our mission, we’d love to have you join our email list (where we *don’t* have to cens0r ourselves, and where we can keep sharing content even if IG shuts us down).
👉To be added, DM us the word INSIDER 📧]()
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![Do you agree? 🤔 Share your thoughts in the comments below! 👇🏼
🚨 Disclaimer: These are just our opinions, and there are no right or wrong answer here. 🚨]()
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![📱💔 Are your phones getting more attention than your relationship?
It’s not just screen time. It’s the *message* it sends. Habitual scrolling can make your partner feel ignored, disconnected, and even less desired.
✨ Fix it with small, intentional boundaries:
- Phone-free meals, walks, or bedtime
- Keep devices out of the bedroom
- Put your phones down when you need to talk
Set small screen-free habits & watch your intimacy soar. ❤️
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Why do we censor words? 🤬
Trust us, we wish we didn’t have to. We’re here to take away the shame and taboo!
But unfortunately Meta considers our educational content to be the same as rhymes-with-corn, and they’ve repeatedly made us delete content, even when we cens0r it. They’ve made me remove my title of “secs” therapist, and even recently disabled our account temporarily. They’ve threatened that they can fully close down our account at any time.
If you want to support our mission, we’d love to have you join our email list (where we *don’t* have to cens0r ourselves, and where we can keep sharing content even if IG shuts us down).
👉To be added, DM us the word INSIDER 📧]()
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![Wanna level it up?
Drop the cover—or send this text:
“Tell me what you want to do to me tonight if you want the next photo without the sheet.”
Works like a charm. 💥]()
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![What is it about getting freaky on vacation that just… turns things up a notch? 🔥
We’ve found that changing our environment helps dissipate our daily stressors, enabling us to focus on each other and feel more present. 🏖️
Have you noticed a difference in your intimacy while on vacation? Let us know in the comments!]()
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![Only 6% of people said their parents did a good job with “the talk.” 😬 For the rest of us, it led to low self-esteem, unsafe choices, and unnecessary shame.
That’s why we created a special podcast episode just for you: Why “The Talk” Isn’t Enough (And What To Do Instead).
Inside, you’ll learn:
✨ The 5 essential conversations every kid deserves
✨ How to start them early (even under age 5!)
✨ The exact words to use so you’ll never be caught off guard
👉 DM us the word NEST to get instant access!]()
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From the excitement of the honeymoon phase, to the quiet comfort of settling in… from messy growth, to flat plateaus, and the brave work of reconnecting… every stage is real, valid, and part of the journey.
Connection isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up—small gestures, honest conversations, and choosing each other again and again.
So… which season are you in right now? 👀]()
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![There is absolutely zero shame in using toys in the bedroom. In fact, they can be total game-changers for enjoyment, intimacy, and just plain fun. 😏
But please, just make sure to use a flared base, especially for anything going near the 🍑!
In this week’s episode, we’re talking about everything from the best starter toy for women to where the heck do you hide them so your family doesn’t find them?!
(Yep, we went there.) Plus, we’re sharing your funniest, most cringe-worthy toy stories.
🎧 Comment HEADPHONES below (or DM us!) and we’ll send you the link to E224: The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide to Secs Toys & Tools
And if you’re a medical provider, tell us your best foreign-object-in-rear story below!]()
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Why do we censor words like “secs”? 🤬
Trust us, we wish we didn’t have to. We’re here to take away the shame and taboo!
But unfortunately Meta considers our educational content to be the same as rhymes-with-corn, and they’ve repeatedly made us delete content, even when we cens0r it.
They’ve made me remove my title of “secs” therapist, and even recently disabled our account temporarily. They’ve threatened that they can fully close down our account at any time.
If you want to support our mission, we’d love to have you join our email list (where we *don’t* have to cens0r ourselves, and where we can keep sharing content even if IG shuts us down).
👉To be added, DM us the word INSIDER 📧]()
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