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![Who wants a kiss? 😻
#ohmonty #myboy #kissme]()
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2025-09-11 02:35:20
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![Are you also finding it hard to throw away boxes? 😂
#LifeWithCats #OhMonty]()
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2025-09-07 04:52:15
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![12 years ago today marks a very special day.
12 years ago today is where my life changed.
12 years ago today is where I met my soulmate.
12 years ago today is where I adopted the most magical little boy, my Monty Boy 💜
I was studying to become a kindergarten teacher when I adopted Monty.
I posted my special little boy on my facebook among my friends telling them how special I thought he looked and how perfect I thought he was/is.
My friends started sharing Monty and suddenly I got an email from Huffington Post that wanted an interview.
I was very surprised but proud and took this as an opportunity to spread awareness on how you are perfect no matter your appearance and how you should adopt don’t shop. 💜
So I made the interview and next morning I woke up to a ton of emails from medias all over the world and people asking me on my Facebook if I could make a Facebook page for Monty so they could follow his life.
Honestly I was so confused! Why would anyone want to follow my cat? 😂
But of course I made a page and started sharing life with my little Monty boy and suddenly Monty had thousands of followers from all over the world.
Now 12 years later, epilepsy, diabetes and dementia and a bunch of anxiety I’m sitting writing this thinking how much I love Monty, my magical little Monty boy and how I’m loving my life with him and Molly.
I did not become a kindergarten teacher but instead I have a bachelor degree in innovation and entrepreneurship, I run my own business, spreading awareness on everything close to my heart and have the most amazing supportive community of friends all over the world and it is all because of Monty, my magical little Monty boy. 💜]()
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2025-09-01 05:32:48
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![Tomorrow marks a very special day for me, because tomorrow it is actually 12 years since I met my amazing magical little Monty boy and signed the adoption papers and took him home 😭💜
This is one of the very first pictures I took of Monty and by coincidence it went viral and completely changed my life.
I will tell you all about it tomorrow 🥰
Love from us 💜]()
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2025-08-31 04:29:58
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![So.much.fluff 😍
Thank you friends for all the positive messages about Monty and how my feelings are valid 💜
You are asking about Molly and let me say one thing about this girl, she’s THRIVING 🥰
My amazing little girl is living her best life, no doubt about that.
She’s happy, playful, snuggly and just so wonderfully weird 😂💜]()
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2025-08-28 02:55:19
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![Hi friends 💜
Since Monty got dementia he has been living voluntarily in the kitchen. That is where he feels safe. He can be in almost the entire house but he chooses to stay in the kitchen most of the days and at night.
He seems happy there and I’m doing everything I can to be around him like working from the kitchen table, sitting on the floor next to him so I can snuggle him and I know I should be happy that he seems to feel safe there but wow I miss him snuggling with me in bed. 😢
I know I’m being selfish if I’m placing him in the bed because he will be so confused and feeling unsafe, plus he will pee everywhere so of course I don’t, but sometimes I honestly just want to scream! Scream to the universe how much I miss my boy and soulmate and how I hate this horrible disease!
I am trying to be grateful, grateful that Monty is happy and feels safe but is it okay to miss our rituals and the way he always called on me to hurry to bed so he could snuggle on my legs or in my arm? 💜
I don’t want to sound depressed friends because I am actually very happy and I do enjoy our new rituals in the kitchen but I guess I just want to put focus on as amazing it is to be a parent to an animal how difficult it can be as well. 💜
Oh boy, all those emotions am I right..
Big hugs, Fenjah]()
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2025-08-26 04:35:12
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![Do I use chopsticks or a fork with this bowl of fluff? 😂
Thank you so much for all the sweet birthday wishes friends 🥰 Molly had a great day with all her favorite things and snacks. She especially enjoyed her birthday shrimps.
Love from us 💜]()
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2025-08-22 03:13:18
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![Today my amazing, beautiful, smart, goofy, happy little girl turns 8 🥰💜
We are celebrating with lots of treats like shrimps and her favorite wet food and of course lots of snuggles and playtime in her outdoor catio 👏
We love you my purrfect little girlie girl Molly Marie Pocket to the moon and back 🥰
Happiness from us,
Molly, Monty, Bo & Fenjah]()
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2025-08-21 03:54:40
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![Oh boy, tonight is tough! 😔
Two weeks ago I started a new job as a social media manager. I’m mostly working from home so I can be around Monty (and Molly) as much as possible.
Monty has had some good weeks when it comes to his dementia but suddenly this evening he crashed. 😭
He keeps meowing very loud, walking around and acts like he cannot find his inner peace.
I am still up (it’s almost 1am) and I’m sitting half asleep in the kitchen with him to keep him calm. That’s the only thing that seems to be working.
I wish there were no such thing as dementia (or diabetes)! 💔
I hope you are all doing well, my amazing and positive community 💜
Love and hugs, Fenjah
#dementiasucks #diabetessucks #worldsbestboy]()
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2025-08-15 04:18:01
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2025-08-10 04:24:01
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![We are still riding on good days with Monty 🥰
He’s really in a good period.
I don’t know if it’s the CBD oil I have started to give him or what it is but he’s eating like never before, acting more playful and he is such a cuddle bug 🥰💜]()
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![If the world seems a little too much for you to handle and you need to look at it in a different way, simply turn your head upside down to gain a new perspective. 😸💜
#magicalmonty]()
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2025-08-05 03:56:59
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![It’s going really good with Monty these days 🥰
He’s still willingly staying in the kitchen but he has started to demand cuddles again 🥹
We have created a new ritual, I’m sitting on the floor in the kitchen and gives him lots of cuddles and using the brush and he’s purring like a motorboat 💜
Almost feels like the old Monty before he got dementia 💜]()
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![Dementia, being deaf, having diabetes.. nothing matters when the brush comes out 🥰😂💜]()
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2025-07-27 23:25:38
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![Even though Monty has dementia, is deaf and has diabetes he still loves being outside and enjoying the sun 🥰
It feels incredible to have a backyard to walk him in 💜]()
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2025-07-26 04:19:13
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![Hi friends ♥️
Since Monty got diagnosed with dementia I have been asked a lot how I’m doing so I just wanted to make a post about it.
I’m really dealing with mixed emotions these weeks since everything makes sense all of sudden why Monty is reacting so differently but it is really difficult to experience him being confused and some days more than others.
Monty is living full time in the kitchen now as of his choice. He has access to the entire house except the living room but he only wants to stay in the kitchen.
This is difficult to me since I want to snuggle with him but he gets very confused when leaving the kitchen. It’s my needs wanting to snuggle with me but I’m constantly asking myself is he really happy living in the kitchen?
He has places to snuggle, food, water and a litter box but really, is that a good life living in one room? It’s a big kitchen but still it’s just one room..
He still wants to play with toys and that makes me happy but I really miss how he would lay on top on my legs in bed and snuggle all night instead of laying in his little bed in the kitchen.
I’m in constant dialog with his vets and they all say that it’s a normal behavior for a cat having dementia to feel safe in a small area and since the door is always open to the kitchen he can go out and into the rest of the house if he wants to.
I would have expected my OCD and anxiety to have exploded since Monty got his diagnosis but instead I’m actually staying very calm and I’m not even feeling the needs to wash my hands more than usual.
That’s a big relief for me and shows me how far I’ve come ♥️
I have huge support in my fiancé Bo who is helping me manage Monty’s diabetes and listening to me talk about Monty all the time.
Most of my days I’m working from home so I can keep an eye on Monty and see how he’s doing.
Since Monty decided to live in the kitchen Molly has decided too. She is constantly in the kitchen with him lying in her fruit bowl on the kitchen table.
When it’s good weather she’s in her playpen outside and she loves that but other than that she’s with Monty all the time ♥️
I just wanted to check in with all of you amazing people and say that I’m doing kinda okay ♥️💜]()
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2025-07-23 04:05:48
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![The last couple of days we have had a heat wave in Denmark and I have been sweating so much! Monty on the other hand is snuggling up in every sun beam he can find or in his snuggle cave 🥰]()
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2025-07-20 03:25:51
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![WOW!
Something quite amazing has happened!
To those who don’t know this, Monty has diabetes and has had it for 4.5 years.
It has been a struggle to control Monty’s blood sugar since Monty doesn’t really want to eat low carb wet food but instead loves to eat high carb dry food.
This has resulted in a very unstable blood sugar from time to time and Monty being very hungry since he has refused to eat his wet food.
Turns out that what he wanted was for the wet food to be completely blended so it’s as smooth like a puré.
Well tada! 🎉 Now he wants to eat it and the last three days (since we started blended his wet food) he has had a perfect blood sugar, like a completely normal cat 😭👏💜
It took me 4.5 years to crack the code but wow, what an amazing feeling it is to see him eat and to measure his blood sugar to find out that it’s perfect!
We have reduced his insulin intake with 50-75% and I’m so excited 🥰
Just wanted to share this happy news with you all 💜
Love, Fenjah
#diabetes #diabetesawareness #catswithdiabetes]()
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2025-07-16 02:45:44
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![Miss fluff and her toe beans 🥰]()
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2025-07-15 02:55:16
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![Hi friends ♥️
I feel the need to clear up some things.
The last two days I have received hundreds of messages and thousands of comments about Monty.
Most messages and comments are wonderful and supportive and for that I’m very grateful but there are also comments about if I’m saying goodbye to Monty now so I’m making this post to clarify the questions.
Swipe the pictures to read 💜]()
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2025-07-14 03:20:38
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![Warning: emotional post.
Hi friends.
This is probably going to be one of the most difficult posts I have to make. 💔
We were at the vet yesterday with Monty and it’s not really happy news.
Since the vet had seen him only six months ago he is getting really old.
He definitely has dementia and even though we are doing everything we can to keep his diabetes under control the numbers doesn’t look good.
Monty has arthritis and yet again he has an infection in one of his little toe beans.
On the positive note his blood samples are also showing that his organs are doing great. So that makes me very happy.
This also means that he qualifies for arthritis medication and will start on that asap.
The vet was very honest with me, which I really appreciate and said that I should start to think about when and how I would say goodbye to Monty.
No vet has ever talked about this before but because of Monty’s mental health is declining due to his dementia I actually have to start thinking about this.
What a nightmare it feels like. 💔
The vet of course cannot predict when Monty’s time to cross the rainbow bridge is, if it is in a month or two years, but she can conclude that from six months ago to now it has gone very fast.
I’m of course heartbroken by this message but I also know that Monty is 15 and has been through so many health issues so it feels like we have cheated death many times and for that I am very grateful.
I have one very big wish for when Monty is spreading happiness in heaven and that is to celebrate his life.
Bo (my fiance/Monty’s dad) has started to plan the best way for me to say goodbye to Monty.
We want to travel to US and invite everyone to participate in a huge celebration of Monty’s life and how he has touched so many peoples hearts.
I want to make a speech, invite people to tell how Monty has touched your lives and I would like everyone to wear something purple (if possible) since this is Monty’s color and it is also the color of epilepsy awareness, something Monty has lived with since 2018.
*continues down in the comments*]()
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2025-07-11 21:56:31
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![Hi friends 🥰
I know I haven’t been posting lately but I have been doing something else.
I finally got the courage to sit down and record videos about mental health, what I have been through and hopefully it can help and inspire others to not feel alone struggling ♥️
I’m posting this picture because it’s all because of my amazing best friend and fiancé Bo I finally got the courage to do what I have been dreaming of for years.
I want this page to be a mix between Monty and Molly’s lives and also my life and what it feels like for me to live with anxiety, OCD, ADHD and PTSD.
This will be very personal for me to post and I really hope that you will be supportive and if you are struggling too, I hope it will help you to not feel alone in your battle ♥️
I know that there is a reason why I got anxiety, and that reason is to help others and to try and normalize having mental health issues.
Love, Fenjah]()
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2025-07-09 17:42:46
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![Update on Monty 💜
Something amazing has happened!
I have received a lot of messages from you wonderful friends about how to help a cat having dementia, and combined talking to my mom who has a lot of experience with people having dementia and Monty’s fantastic dad, my fiance Bo, Bo and I decided to try to change Monty’s space at night.
From having the entire house to roam around in we closed the doors to the living room. He still has the basement, the first floor and the kitchen.
We then placed outdoor chairs in front on the kitchen doors to the windows so he cannot see outside unless he jumps on the kitchen counter which only Molly can do.
I then made him a little safe place under a kitchen chair and WOW what a difference!
Monty hasn’t peed outside the litter box or meowed at all the last two nights and I’m so happy 🥰👏💜
He is snuggling all night in his new little safe space and I even sat my alarm to see where he was last night and well, he slept safely in his little cuddle cave under the chair.
Can it really be this simple? Just to limit his space, to prevent him from seeing outside and to turn on some lights in the hallway?
It has helped my little boy so much and as long as it helps that’s all we need 🥰
Thank you so much for all your advice, positive thoughts and love 💜
Love & Happiness, Fenjah
#dementia]()
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![IT’S HERE FRIENDS - Our new drinking fountain 🥰
You know I rarely do any commercials for companies unless there’s something the kiddos and I really love and now there is!
The new Elfin fountain! 😍👏
I especially love that it has a pump less system so it’s super easy to clean and Monty and Molly love it! 😻
I have of course a coupon code for you on 10% off with MONTY_HAPPINESS and if you use my link I will also get a little something I can use for treatos for the kiddos 🥰
https://www.elfinfountain.com/MONTY_HAPPINESS (link is also in Linktree)
Hope you like the video and will help me share the message because this is truly a fantastic fountain 🥰
Love and happiness,
Monty, Molly & Fenjah
#WeLoveIt #Pumpless #ElfinFountain
#MagDrive #PumplessFoutain
#PetHydration]()
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![MOLLY GOT A BOYFRIEND! 😍
I just think he needs to learn some manners tho 😂😂
(Watch the whole video to see why)]()
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